I remember my very first threesome… I was 18, he was 18 and she was 19… I thought myself so very exotic and loved it, he thought he was in heaven and I don’t think she liked it at all. Tis the key to a grand threesome dynamic, everyone needs to be into it. So, although it may sound like an AWESOME IDEA… it really needs some solid conversation, clearly communicated boundaries and checking in with what is truly being desired in the moment, in the opportunity.  I have seen first hand the couples that take themselves off for their first swinging adventures and you can pick the one that thought the whole thing was going to be grand, and the one that just wanted to keep the other happy and not seem like a prude, no matter the gender, I have seen it go both ways. And a man that doesn’t want his cock sucked by just anyone on may seem like a rare bird, but in actual fact, I feel for him deeply. It can be quite confronting. Which is why I reckon that itch that wants a scratching, that “what would a threesome really be like”, is rather delicious with a seasoned sex worker. A woman like me, that can help navigate the emotional experience as well as the sexual one. BOTH people in your couple need to be on board and able to relax into the space that can be afforded by a professional. So, if you are a looking to explore the idea, why not start with taking me out for dinner, for some social time first. At $150 an hour for clothes on, but able to speak to all manner of things depending on our environment, makes for a wonderful way to explore the idea.